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A publishing house for tired parents who refuse to shout. Books, tales, small gestures. Nothing magical. Everything true.
by Sèna Gay-Vigan, philosopher of the everyday, author of Happiness, My Best Friend (Austin Macauley Publishers, 2025).
A moment
You are the parent who stays calm in the middle of the noise.
You come to dinner with something like gladness — rather than something like dread.
You see past what looks like a tantrum. Behind it, you recognise a need for attention.
And you defuse the tension by another route than shouting and brute authority.
That parent exists. They are no more patient than you. They are simply better informed.
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This book alone, if you put it into practice, could already settle half of your evenings.
Tired? Fair enough. Read it once everyone is asleep.
And when your brain starts to murmur: 'This is a waste of time. No book has that kind of power' — smile. That is the signal that you are exactly on the right path. A brain that resists is a brain that has understood something is about to change.
Understanding
Your brain has one mission, and one only: keeping you alive. Anything new, it files first under dangerous. Out of caution. Out of habit.
A growing child means something new every single day. Add tiredness to that. No wonder your brain sounds the alarm, drops into survival mode — and declares war on your child, or on any approach to parenting other than the one you were raised with.
It isn't a flaw. It's a setting. And a setting can be changed.
Which means one thing, tonight: you are not the problem. You never were the problem.
A move towards change
Before you leave this page, take one gesture with you. Just one. It comes from The Recourse.
Eat while it's hot.
Tonight, at the table, don't serve everyone before yourself. Serve yourself at the same time. Sit down at the same time. Eat while the food is still hot.
You will feel some resistance: not now, the little one's meat needs cutting first, the glasses need filling, the salt needs fetching. That resistance has a name. It believes it is protecting you.
Don't follow it. Once. Tonight.
A parent who has eaten a hot meal is a parent with less need to shout. That isn't a metaphor, it's blood sugar.
Your voice matters
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I'll admit it: I got a splash right in the face, a brutal wake-up call. After reading the book, I understood that I was living on the autopilot of "stress and tension" mode. I didn't really believe in it. But I needed to try something else. I was starting to run out of fuel. The change isn't easy, but there are days where I fall asleep with a smile on my lips thinking: "Victory"
Gwlad
It's surprising what a simple book can awaken in us. It's a bit embarrassing, but I cried thinking about my mother. I revisited certain scenes from my childhood and I was finally able to forgive her. I sometimes did the same things she did, convinced that forcing my daughter to eat was the solution. I understood that Mom was like me back then: lost, overwhelmed, and with no one to show her another way.
Gwlad
I am a 10-year-old girl. I liked the book a lot. My brothers annoy me a lot. Even if I didn't understand everything, I know now how to calm my anger.
Olwen
I confess I was very pleasantly surprised. The author brilliantly mixes cooking, the concrete problems of parenting, and philosophy. She has a rare gift: naming problems without drama and giving very concrete solutions to daily difficulties. No jargon, clear solutions. You can feel that she knows what she is talking about. I no longer felt alone. She also allowed me to set down the weight of guilt I carried as a parent. I finally allow myself "not to always do things right". I just want to say thank you to her.
Maglonne
I have rarely read a little tale so beautiful, true and realistic. The author has an incredible ability to dare to name parental pains with grace. For once, I felt understood and legitimate. I no longer felt alone facing my doubts and my questionings This book offers no miracle cure. The author proposes instead a path towards the acceptance of our humanity, without judgment to access if only we want to something greater within us…….
Maglonne
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Understanding settles what willpower alone never manages to tame.
Rational explanations for what you are living through. Because the brain has one rare quality: it falls quiet in front of a clear explanation.
The search "I yell at my kids all the time" is typed every day. Here's what the usual methods don't tell you — and one gesture to begin tonight.
Read onYou have 90 seconds to keep from exploding at your kids. It's the window most parents miss — and what neuroscience teaches us to do instead.
Read onYou breathe, you practice 4-7-8, and you're still on the verge of exploding. Here's why breathing isn't enough — and what your hands know instead.
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You already have everything you need to change: your hands, one habit, and six paths to guide you.
Let's be honest: reading is a pleasure. But neuroscience is clear. Change asks for two things: a gesture, and a habit repeated every day.
The good news? You already have both. Nothing to add to your days: the gestures are already there in your kitchen, and the repetition is called dinner.
Six books. Six kitchen gestures. Six territories of parent life.
Six African fables, six kitchen philosophies, six recipes that carry meaning. A book for parents who fail, and who would like that to stop being a problem. Illustrated PDF ebook, instant download after purchase.
€39.99
Discover →Practical philosophy for the dinner table battles — no shouting, no bribery, just patience.
What if reconnecting began with a single pan?
A mindful parenting guide — where the dough becomes a master of patience.
€47.99
Discover →Teaching your children to see things through, starting with the end of the meal.
Forgotten vegetables, forgotten emotions: a journey of rediscovery through ancient flavors.
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The family table: finding each other again when the meal has become a burden
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My story
It began one evening, around a table, when I had run out of words.
And if you would like to go further, here is a longer read. How a kitchen became a place of philosophy. How a table became a bridge between an adult and a child.
Children's tales
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In the evening, a story can become the bridge the day's words never found.
Not summaries for small readers. Whole stories, where the child is the hero of the same path as you. You read your book. They listen to their tale. You move forward together, each through your own door.
Madame Estelle burns her tarts. And that's a good thing. A tender illustrated tale for the children who watch their parents falter — and for the parents who'd love to be allowed to falter in peace. Forty-four pages, made for reading aloud, curled up on a sofa. Illustrated PDF ebook, instant download after purchase.
€29.99
Discover →A children's tale — where, seed after seed, we learn the patience of living things.
One Sunday, one sentence. A whole week to let it steep.
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About the author
Sèna Gay-Vigan writes for people who suspect cooking is more than a chore — that it is, quietly, a language. A way to pass things down, to soften an evening, to mend what the day has broken. Her ebooks are gentle company for parents who want to cook with love, even when the day has been long.
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Austin Macauley Publishers, 2025
Sèna's first published book — a luminous meditation on the small, daily art of making room for happiness.
Discover the bookThe best of our two worlds
In 2022, I wrote a book. Happiness, My Best Friend.
I wrote it on my own. I wanted to sell it on my own too.
I knew nothing about web marketing. Nothing about landing pages, nothing about search, nothing about all those words I have learnt since and that, back then, sounded like a foreign language.
And behind it all, there was the work. Writing, editing, laying out, translating, building, selling, replying, starting again. One person. Twenty-four hours in a day, minus the meals, the children, the tiredness.
I gave up.
That isn't a pleasant sentence to write. It is the true one.
I had dozens of titles and thousands of sentences running through my head. The idea of a digital publishing house came knocking again. And with it, the same question as in 2022: how on earth to do it.
I thought about artificial intelligence. I knew nothing about it.
I sat through a talk by Alégria, a leading voice on AI in France. I took away a single word: Lovable. A tool. What to do with it was still an open question.
Then I heard about Claude. One video, on YouTube, settled everything. A single sentence: don't write to Claude like a developer, or like a manager.
So I did what children do. I used my curiosity, my nerve and my instinct.
That is where the adventure began.
Very quickly, it wasn't the answers that changed everything. It was the questions.
Being asked why, for whom, at what moment, in which kitchen — I realised something. I knew exactly what I wanted.
For two months, I set down the charter of this house. I trained the tool on everything I had written. My punctuation, my silences, my short sentences, my way of stopping just before the end.
There was never any question of Claude writing my books.
I already had the titles. I already had the sentences. What I handed over was what I didn't know how to do: the marketing, the structure, the technical side. On one non-negotiable condition — that my voice be respected.
It then became my translator. It carried my thoughts to Lovable, which builds this site. To Genspark, which illustrates my tales.
Everything you see on these pages is original. It came out of my imagination. It was created entirely from my own ideas.
Artificial intelligence tools let me put colour and shape on top of it.
For a mother of five with dreams of her own, that is beyond measure.
To my children, thank you for going through the hard hours and the beautiful ones with me. It is this whole life, yours and mine woven together, that brought these books into being.
To my father, who always treated me as someone set apart.
To my mother, who always made me believe I had the right to dream big and to follow my aspirations all the way.
To my brothers, who made me love books and let me grow up somewhere joyful and safe.
And to everyone who inspired this site. To Kelly Massol, for the proof that a community is built before a product. To Quentin Merle du Bourg and his brother Edouard. To Authority Hacker, for the architecture of pillar pages. To Forbes Riley, for the art of selling a transformation rather than a product. To Alégria, for making artificial intelligence tools clear at last.
